Friendship

Raining, it's always been raining these days. The sound of the raindrop dripping brings uneasiness, for some reason. Opened a new private blog, without anyone invited, and never intend to. Let's get back to the post before we drift away.


Friends. Best Friends. Friendship. What does it really mean? What does it mean by being a friend? What does it take to be a good friend? How can we be one's best friend? Friendship, is it really that easy to create a bond between people?

To me, friends doesn't really mean much to me, but best friends could really cause an impact on me. Naturally, I consider all of my friends as best friends. Well, until the time I realized that I couldn't really share my real thoughts with most of my so-called 'friends'. It's then when I found the crucifying, yet realistic line of
separation between friends and true friends.

I consider a few of my friends as my TRUE friends. But for some reason, I couldn't understand them, nor do I have the chance to understand them, as they doesn't really want to open up themselves, at least not to me. They might share their happiness with you, but doesn't really say it out loud when they have problems, which is what I thought as the most important thing about friends.

Best friends who wouldn't share their utmost thoughts with you. Best friends who wouldn't be around you when you're feeling down. Best friends that you think that you couldn't share your thoughts with them. Best friends that you think is not trustworthy enough. Are they really our best friends?

I don't care how people comment me about my point of view against this topic, nor do I care about how people see me. True friends. They might really exist, but maybe just not soon enough, yet.


When will the rain finally stop?

The Last Day

虽然题目是英文的,但为了一些看不懂英文的傻瓜朋友着想,最后还是决定了用华文写. 而且我也发现,用华文写的文章总是会有比较多的留言.

明天,就是考试的最后一天.紧接着来,就是一个短暂的假期. 虽然说假期是让人放松下来的, 但是在这个小小的假期里, 却包容了许许多多的计划. 华乐团练习/演出, 班歌练习, 钢琴练习, 补习等等, 就足够把八成的时间都烧掉了. 但是, 我还是感觉到庆幸; 至少我的假期不是虚幻的度过的.

过了明天, 许多人的心情就会变好; 过了明天, 许多人的烦恼就会消失; 过了明天, 许多人的脸上又会恢复了平常的样貌. 明天, 就是最后一天了. 做好最后的冲刺, 向明天去吧!

My Own Ways of Studying

I know that this post did come abit too late, but I decided to share some of my studying ways with whoever who visits this blog. (I know that this post is abit too long, but just bear with it ;) )

Recently, I kept hearing about friends are working out late in the night or midnight, some even until dawn. I don't think that's the right way to go. The time between 11pm and 3pm is the time that our body and mind (or even soul? rofl) needs to rest. We should be SLEEPING during that hour. Try waking up early in the morning (around 5am), and start your studies by then. You should be able to get some better studying results. Oh yeah, and if you couldn't wake up on time, get an alarm clock or hire a friend to blast your phone ;D

Also, do not crap your head inside the books. Study for 15 minutes, then take a small break for a few minutes. Play your guitar, piano, or just look out of your window; Let your mind have time take in what you had just read, and go back for another 15 minutes. During the 15 minutes, you must have ZERO distraction. Use that time to totally focus on your book. Repeat the process and you'll find it effective in no time.

We should read and go through through what the teacher is going to teach the next day at least one time. That's the main and primary reason why we should bring our textbook home, and not just leave it in school. If you're just lazy, then flip through the book during the time that the teacher is not in the class yet. By doing this, you're able to get an idea what is going to be taught and it'll be easier to remember and recall.

Lastly, MAKE NOTES! Three type of notes. Pre-class notes, In-class notes and EXAM notes. Pre-class notes are made before the teaching period starts, mostly used to get an whole idea about the chapter. In-class notes, everyone knows how to do it. Just copy down whatever you think is important that is wrote on the blackboard. Here comes the most important part; EXAM notes. Just highlight the main points that you had prepared in your pre-class and in-class notes and copy them down. Now you have it, notes to prepare for EXAM!

So did you make it here? I'm proud of myself that I can actually write all the way here. Hope this helps ya' all.


As usual, Hope uAllFaiL Good luck in your exams! ;)

EXAM

Been gone for more than a week, mostly because of being in a state of laziness abstractive mentality rejunevation.

Exam is 'round the corner, but I bet most of us just isn't ready for it yet. The exam starts this Saturday, but I didn't even get my notes photocopied from my friend yet. Now I have to suck up all of my weekend's resting and playing time into studying. Great, just great! (And obviously, I don't mean it)

Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Add Maths - four mind-breaking and soul-ripping subjects. These subjects tends to take everything from you, but too bad, we're actually resistant towards it.(It means that we're trying to be lazy ;D) Was trying to drop Biology since most of the courses that I might be interested in is totally non-relative with it, but my parents wanted me to take Biology, just in case of some
future problems. (Well, we couldn't predict the future =P)

Might be gone for another week too, to prepare for the exams. If I'm staying 'round my comp, it's going to get me banned from the room D;



Hope uAllFail Good luck in your exams :D

无题

最近有点无聊.. 上来blogspot又不知道要写什么好. 有时候开了真的想直接关掉, 因为真的是没有东西写.

考试即将来临了, 我都还没开始做什么准备呢~ 看来这次是真的死定了! 唯一的方法就只有跟朋友借笔记来复印了.. 要不然.. 不敢想象 ==

开了部落格, 才知道原来每个人都有属于自己的烦恼. 这些烦恼, 有些是很容易解决的, 有一些必须靠自己去解决, 但有一些, 却必须去靠时间来解决. (我拥有的烦恼, 可能三种都有包容在内吧 ;P )

每个人都有属于自己的生活, 也不是说随随便便就能插进一脚的. 最近, 有一个朋友invite我去读他的blog, 并且说他的这个blog只有我一个人能看到. (!?) 我想, 这个可以算是一个朋友给予另一个朋友所谓-真正的信任-吧.

对予这件事情, 我可以说我感觉到非常意外. 但是, 我可以向你保证; 你写在blog里的那些东西, 除非你自己公开, 不然就不会有第三个人知道. 这个就是我唯一能回覆他对我的信任的方法.

Between life and death,
time exists;
Between truth and lies,
nothing exists.

喜欢一个人的感觉

很多人都没有谈过恋爱, 但是都应该有过喜欢一个人的经验吧. 这种感觉有时是短暂的, 有时候是长久的; 有时候是强烈的, 但有时候是微弱的.

坦白说, 我觉得我自己会很容易就对一个人有感觉, 所以每当我一开始有这种感觉时, 我就会开始避开对方 (或者想办法让对方避开我 ;D). 人, 会这么做, 也只有一个原因吧. 至少我并不奢望有人会喜欢我, 因为谁都知道, 是不可能的. 也许有人会说我花心, 也也许会有人说我不专一, 但是这些对我来说, 并不重要; 我就是这样, 没人能改变得了. 我也不需要被一些不可能的东西困扰着.

有些人会问我: 我到底有没有谈过恋爱? 如果说有, 你可能不信; 但如果说没有, 又不是真的. 说实话, 我只谈过一次恋爱, 但并不长. 我也敢说, 这场恋爱绝不是美好的回忆. 也因为这个"初恋", 令我对这种感觉完全失去信心.

在此, 我想告诉某些人:

有些人说, 只有失去才会珍惜拥有;
但我觉得, 一个人必须在失去之前就应该学会珍惜;
当你在失去之后 才学会珍惜;
一切都已经太迟了.

有机会的要好好把握;
不要等到机会跑了才来后悔;
善意的谎言可以骗过一个人一段时间;
但是过后带来的伤害, 并不是你所可以想象的.

Enjoying Life: With Friends

Hate to admit it but.. These monkey faces are my classmates, or more precisely, best friends. The picture was taken during Biology class, with the absence of three persons inside, including me. Hmm, where are the two other persons?



Tada! One of 'em! Yep, it's the one lying on the table :D Rumor says that he attended the "P" Level Motor License Test and skipped school for the day. (Better fetch me around once you get your license, or you'll get it =P) As for the other person, he was acting emo 'round and he decided to kept his photo and identity confidential too: Boring!


Every day spent with these guys are just plain fun, and it's nice to have them 'round: Friends that you can play with, friends that you can chat with, and most importantly, friends that you can trust. Smile, laughter, or even mental breaks reigns over you when you spend your time with them :P How long will happy times like this last? I'm not sure, but there's one thing that I can be sure of: I'm enjoying my current life; with them.


Cherish what you have currently, and don't hope for something out of your reach. Try too hard and you'll even lose what you have now.

Lastly, a few sentences that I felt like writing off:

My life and fate,
is up for me to decide, no one else can;
It's been like this,
it's now like this,
and it'll always be like this.
I'll decide how I live,
and what I do;
Not you.

佩欣=傻瓜+白木 =)